I have been wanting to share this book with you all... It's called the Mentor Mom by Jackie Kendell. It's amazing! Pick it up on amazon you won't regret it!
In the first few chapters she talks about what images and lessons you are stamping (and will stamp) on the minds and hearts of your children through your actions. Things they will say... "I remember mom use to..." Things they will do..."directly modeling you." Will it be images of you praying on your knees, reading His word, praying with and for them... etc" Awesome picture! I just loved it! That may be the whole crafty or scrapper in me but I could so picture this! I want to stamp images of God and His love on the mind of my children. This is something I have been praying through and thinking about lately. And don't you know when the Lord is challenging you in an area He gives you opportunity to practice! Here is a story of some practice He allowed in my life today...
okay so i have to share this crazy TRUE story that happened to me today... a true opportunity to stamp!
So we were completely out of some things we needed asap at the store. I was trying to convince myself all morning to go to the store. I had talked myself through the process all morning of waiting until Jaylin woke from her first nap, nurse her, feed all the kids lunch by 11:15, go potty (so no one has to go at the store), wash hands, put on shoes, change diaper, and grab purse and daddy's lunch to drop off, so we could be out the door by 11:30 and back by 1:00 for a late nap! Late nap days are always hard and a little stressful, but sacrifices had to be made to make the trip to the store happen. I just kept going over it in my head so that I could convinces myself it was a good idea... shopping that is (with three VERY little people)! YEAH! Not so much!!!
First let me say that I love and hate the bay area! There are areas that are beautiful and green and wonderful to explore and there are people in our life God has brought us that we love, but it's (at least the silicon valley) is very BUSY, HECTIC, CHAOTIC, and OVERWHELMING at times! And I am sure it's heightened by three little ones who are all very depended in need of me constantly! All this to say that everywhere we go it's very crowded and challenging when my heart loves open spaces!
So walmart is one of those crazy, busy, hectic, chaotic, and overwhelming places without little ones let alone with them. The closest one is about 20 mins from me and I only visit once in a great while so I stack up my list and go! Walmart is literally a Zoo! Not only is it crowded but people act crazy (explanation coming)! I avoid it like a plague! I only visit it maybe once every 6 months or so now because of these types of experiences... I will pay the few pennies extra for Target at this point! Honestly if Walmart didn't have so many little items that I could only find there I wouldn't go again! Really! I wouldn't and I like me a bargain, but at what cost! My sanity or my witness for my Lord! NOT WORTH IT!
But today... Oh today.... was the walmart challenge day! As I was pushing my double stroller with one hand, and pulling the shopping cart and asking Tre (who just turned 4) to help with the shopping cart with the other hand I was making my way around the store with many stops for items, as well as toys thrown out of the stroller, little voices noticing fun things all around, little voices asking for water (which I did not have), and the discipline of them all it was a bit stressful, but I was doing fine at this point! It was not until I was coming out of an isle with both shopping cart and stroller and a man in a wheel chair was coming the opposite direction... there was a lady behind me who started huffing and puffing (loudly) because it was taking a little more time for me, and the man in the wheel chair to clear the isle. I turned said... "expuse me" (nicly as in sorry I am in your way)...She continued her rant with, "Some of us are on lunch break." This is when my flesh began to rise a little. I said, "Okay, we are trying to get out of yoru way... you don't have to be rude." She then huffed and puffed some more and as she was passing me turned gave me a really mean and spiteful look and said, "GET a baby sitter!" Seriously I wanted to cry and hit her all at once! My emotions were raging!
Did she seriously just tell a hormonal nursing mommy of three tiny little ones to get a baby sitter! Seriously! I wanted to shout out.... " ARE YOU SERIOUS" "I enjoy these little blessings and as hectic and stressful as this is for me I wouldn't change it for the world" Instead all I said is..."I don't work...and you could be a little more considerate." That was the end of it and she sped around the corner.
nothing else would come out and yet I wanted to hurl a hole heap of word vomit at her, but I am so thankful the LORD held my tongue! Truly it was HIM cause I would not have! But I am thankful for the way He opened my eyes to two things....
ONE this was a moment to stamp on my children's memory a way to handle conflict! I pray that as they grow when they see me in intense situations that the stamp I impress upon them is one being under the control of our Lord and savior! Doing and acting as He calls even when it's VERY difficult!
TWO it is so important to place yourself in someone else shoes and truly have a heart and eyes of the Lord to see where people are at!
I did not want to pray for this lady who spoke such harsh words to me. But as I started to pray the Lord showed me I needed to pray blessings upon her. OH.... that is tough! But again an opportunity to teach the children a real life call from God's word "praying for those who persecute us" and train them to obey their LORD even when it's hard!
Although my experience was crazy and overwhelming my prayer is that this Walmart Stamp will impact my children as it has me! Thank you Sweet Jesus for the lessons you teach us in the midst of a crazy and challenging moment! If this ever happens again I pray my response is something like, "Jesus loves you!" My goal is to grow and leave better and better stamps on the mind of my children for my LORD!
If you made it this far... thanks for reading and stopping by!
~Blessings to you all~
~Jewels~